to realize this either because they are not interested
to know or they are buoyed by the breeze of love or
the guy’s physical features.
Yes! Men are interesting pieces of creation, but you must be
careful before you get ruined by them. Unlike women who
can suppress their s*xual thirst, men cannot and most only
come for your cherry.
According to a recent study, seven out of ten men cannot
resist s*xual temptation, and some men go to the extent
of love-conning women like in the above scenario. Brian Okoth
highlights some of the ways to identify a man who is coming
after you just for s*x.
1. Keep The Goodies In The Cookie Jar.
Nowadays, some men feel entitled to sharing your bed
after splashing out on one date. But be advised, a few
drinks and a cheap meal are not legally binding. The longer
you avoid sleeping with a man, the more time he spends
learning who you are and you who he is. A man with
short-term intentions will find the wait exceedingly tiring
and will sooner or later leave you for an easy prey.
2. Pace Yourself.
Men often feel entitled and arrogant when they see that
you are prepared to drop everything to see them at the
last minute. No matter how enticing his invitation is, when
you accept it on the same day it sends out the message of
desperation and easy hunt. Most instances before his
invitation, you have plans of going out with your girlfriends,
washing your hair. At the beginning of love and passion, your
priority should be only you. The man has not yet done enough
at this stage to be worthy of being a priority. Show him the
tough side of you, and he will chase after you.
3. Never Accept A Date Via Text.
When a man is a serial texter and fails to call before your
first date then, be certain you are a far option; there’s the
main girl somewhere whom he spends all his airtime on.
Of course there are exceptions to every rule. However, in
most cases this kind of behaviour subtly communicates his
sole desire of sleeping with you at minimal cost.
A text is the minimum effort required to see you when he
doesn’t want to face the awkwardness of conducting a
conversation if he isn’t interested in your personality. Never
entertain a man who does the bare minimum; Kenyan singer
Wahu calls them “Vibowow”: they are never serious.
4. Be Keen On The Language He Uses On You.
It is your first date with him and this man insists on telling
you how hot you are, and not how thoughtful and brilliant
your conversations are: this lad only has short term
intentions with you.
If he finds a way of ‘s*xing up’ every conversation that’s a
sure sign he is after that one thing. So hurriedly gulp that
bottle of expensive drink he bought you and leave that man alone.
